Fetish & Fashion – Who inspires whom?
Fetish and fashion have always influenced each other. A story about the relationship between designers and the BDSM subculture.
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Masochism: The M in BDSM
Masochism describes the sexual pleasure derived from suffering and pain. But why do some people enjoy it, and where does this preference come from?
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How to dom: 12 tips for beginners
You’re a beginner and want to explore BDSM as a Dom, taking control? The following tips for Dom beginners from Gentledom.de can help you with that.
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Am I a pervert? – (Entertaining) thoughts
Nobody had to say to me, “That’s perverted!” counter-emotional. I knew that others would label my sexual behavior as perverted.
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Discipline – The first D in BDSM
The D in BDSM stands for “Discipline,” among other things, and similar to Dominance, it involves following rules. But where is the difference?
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Tight, tighter, binding
More than just bondage: Binding involves temporarily restricting blood flow to certain body parts. It’s not entirely without risk.
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STI and STD Part I: how they’re transmitted
STIs, commonly referred to as sexually transmitted infections, can often be transmitted unintentionally. In BDSM, unfortunately, the possibilities are particularly numerous.
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Perverse – wrong, twisted, unacceptable?
The term “perverse” originally means “turned around” or “reversed”. The adjective is often used in a sexual context.
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Dominance: Something like leadership quality?
Dominance is one of the six major areas and, along with “Discipline,” is behind the D in BDSM. And yet, dominance can manifest itself in various ways.
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#Latexfetish – An interview with Frau Tagtraum
Frau Tagtraum has been fully embracing her latex fetish in the BDSM scene for many years. She sat down with Deviance for an interview.
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Foot fetish: soles on their path to acceptance
Thanks to its high prevalence and prominent supporters, foot fetishism has become one of the most accepted fetishes in our society. But what lies behind it?
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Chastity. Or: “a never cuming story”
In BDSM chastity play, the bottom participant abstains from sex, masturbation, and/or orgasms at the request of the top participant.
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10-points to check: Is my Dom dangerous?
Some people exhibit reckless and manipulative behavior in BDSM relationships. Find out if your Dom is dangerous with this self-check.
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Fetish in a shining armour – Latex Lover
In the fetish community, there are a variety of material or object fetishists. One of them is the Latex Lover, a person who is aroused by rubber.
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“You are my Toy!”
A human Toy comes into play when the Top wishes it. The most important task is to satisfy the person playing the Top.
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Jute rope – noisy but soft
Due to its unique, supple, and soft handling, jute rope has become a popular choice for bondage rope in recent years.
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10 red flags that Subs should pay attention to with Doms
There are specific red flags that can be observed again and again in submissive or dominant personalities. This article is dedicated to “Dangerous Dominants”.
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Hang in there! Bunny and Rope Bottom
Yes, theres is a name for the passive part in rope bondage, who consensually and with attention to safety risks allows themselves to be tied up by another person.
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Latex fetish – shine bright like a…
Latex or rubber is one of the most common material fetishes. Additionally, this shiny material is often encountered as a sex toy or dress code at BDSM parties.
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Golden shower: Just let it out
Golden shower is the term for urine play. Here you can find out what the attraction is, what to watch out for and what you should avoid.
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Rough and tough: hemp rope
Since hemp rope maintains its length under tension, it is an ideal rope for the Japanese bondage art shibari, but for this reason, it is more suitable for experienced bondage fans.
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Playing for the first time: tips and advice
You can hardly wait to finally try out BDSM. But as the first time gets closer and closer, you realize that there are still many unanswered questions.
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Pretty captivating: Rigger or Rope Top
“Rigger” refers to a profession in the maritime industry. The alternative name Rope Top is made up to show also the status of playing “on top” within a BDSM activity.
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Aftercare – What it comes down to
Aftercare refers to the mutual psychological and emotional support of the players immediately after a BDSM session by talking about and reflecting on the experience.
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