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Submission – The fine art of surrender

In exploring the concept of submission, one delves into the dynamics of power and trust within interpersonal relationships. A conscious decision to relinquish control or authority.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Uniform fetish: Attention!

The uniform fetish is often associated with negative examples like SS uniforms, yet the range of this fetish is more diverse than one might think.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

The taming of the shrew: Brat Tamer

Like many other terms in the BDSM realm, “Brat-Tamer” can be taken literally. It’s a challenging role.

by Kitteh | Fantasy & Experience, Stories

Constant dripping brings the moan: wax play

Candlelight has always been associated with romance and the bedroom. So, it was only a matter of time before people started playing with wax.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

It’s getting hot: wax play

A tantalizing BDSM practice with a unique visual aspect: Wax play involves dripping or pouring hot wax onto bare skin.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Limits: hard and soft, but always important

In BDSM, setting limits establishes the framework within which play occurs. There are distinctions between hard and soft limits, which exist on both the submissive and dominant sides.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Spanking: beat on beat to ecstasy

Spanking is one of the most popular BDSM practices and describes hitting for the purpose of punishment or arousal. In particular, it refers to the spanking of the buttocks.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Pretty tricky: clamps and clips

Clamps for BDSM can be attached to various parts of the body. But beware: Not every body part is suitable for everyone when it comes to pain tolerance.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Flexible and adventurous: Kinkster

A Kinkster engages in kinky activities, practice SM practices, and is flexible in the expression of their desires without aligning with one side of the power dynamic.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

13 red flags for dating and relationships

Red flags are warning signs to watch out for in relationships and dating. Here are 13 red flags to pay special attention to in BDSM.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Your backdoor’s new best friends: anal beads

The pleasure is particularly stimulating when anal beads are pulled out just before or during orgasm. Find out more here!

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

8 red flags Doms should watch out for with Subs

When people talk about red flags in BDSM, they usually want to warn submissive people. But not all subs are lovely angels.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Masochist: Pleasure in pain and the joy of suffering

Experiencing power and violence can cause more sexual arousal for a masochist than the actual performance of sexual acts.

by Kitteh | Fantasy & Experience, Stories

Attention, this is a control! About orgasms and sensitivity

Controlling your orgasm is a bit like baking frozen pizza. At some point you just have the feeling when the time is right.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Slippery little helper: Lube

Oil-based lube, except for silicone oil, is not recommended as it can damage toys and condoms. It’s better to opt for water-based options.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

Wannabe Dom: Delving into the realm of pretentious dominance

Entering the BDSM scene, both offline and online, you often come across the term ‘Wannabe Dom’. What does it mean?

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Brat – nightmare or challenge?

Hardly any type is as controversial in the BDSM area as the role of the brat. Some are annoyed by the rebelliousness, others love the challenge.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Trust is good, but orgasm control is better

In BDSM, orgasm control refers to the prohibition, intentional delay, or enforcement of a partner’s orgasm.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Pretty edgy: Edging

Edging is a specific type of orgasm control in which a submissive person is repeatedly pushed to the limit of arousal.

by Deviance | A to Z, Basics

How kink shaming creates additional barriers

Kink shaming describes the devaluation of a person based on their sexual preferences and is also frequently encountered within the BDSM community.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Genital torture for men: Ballbusting / CBT

Ballbusting” or “Cock and Ball Torture” (“CBT” in short) is a form of play in which the penis and testicles are tormented.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

16 questions to ask your date

Conversations are sometimes not an easy matter, especially on BDSM dates. Here are 16 questions that will put your date through their paces.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Oral sex royal: queening or facesitting

There is hardly any other practice that allows for the demonstration of power and superiority with maximum pleasure for the dominant person like Queening, also known as Facesitting.