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Riding crop – For discipline and order

The riding crop is typically intended as an instrument for a brief chastisement to correct misbehavior on the part of the submissive partner.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Under observation: Voyeur

In the literal sense of voyeurism, it is a crime. When we talk about deviance from voyeurs, as usual, we assume consent.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

The pleasure of torture: Sadist

Exercising power and (consensual) violence can cause more sexual arousal in a sadist than the actual performance of sexual acts.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

8 points for your safety when dating

When two or more people engage in BDSM, the issue of personal safety should be anything but neglected.

by Deviance | Fantasy & Experience, Stories

The inner struggle

Can I find this hot? Am I allowed to enjoy it? Blogger Katharina-Sophie from Sub-Space on inner struggle and societal chains.

by Lynn | A to Z, Products

Jangled nerves: The Wartenberg wheel

In medicine, it’s hardly used anymore for hygienic reasons, but the Wartenberg wheel is experiencing a true renaissance in BDSM circles to deliberately induce pain stimuli.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

The best and safest locations for your first date

Dating location: The first date in BDSM always brings some difficulties with it. One of them is choosing a suitable location.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Collars and cuddles: pet play

Pet play refers to erotic role-playing games where a typically submissive partner takes on the role of an animal. Popular choices include cats, dogs, and ponies.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Basics

What does polyamory have to do with BDSM?

Polyamory describes a form of love life very common in BDSM circles, where a person has, loves, and maintains relationships with multiple partners.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Flogger – A whip even for beginners

A flogger is mostly used as a sex toy in the BDSM realm. The active act of whipping is called flagellation.

by Ginger San | Kinky Life, Tips

BDSM symbols: Recognizable signs in everyday life

As is common in many subcultures, BDSM sympathizers also use symbols to identify themselves to like-minded people in everyday life. But which symbols mean what?

by Ginger San | A to Z, Roles

Total control: Master and Mistress

The role of a Master or Mistress refers to a person who consensually assumes ownership of another person with whom they are in a relationship.

by Deviance | A to Z, Products

How to put on Latex

Those who have ever tried on the shiny material know: Putting on latex is anything but easy. Here you will learn how to tame even the toughest fabric.

by Deviance | BDSM & Society, Stories

#NormalizeBDSM

BDSM is sick? No, says blogger Katharina-Sophie and demands: Normalize BDSM! However, some vanillas may see it differently.

by Deviance | Kinky Life, Tips

Of wishing and wanting

Wishes and BDSM fantasies can sometimes be quite wild. However, author Margaux Navara wishes especially for beginners that these are not fulfilled at first.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

A short guide to prostate massage

A commonly practiced technique in the BDSM realm is prostate massage, also referred to as “milking”, as it allows for orgasm without penile stimulation.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

Kinky – a bend in sexuality

In general language usage, “kinky” describes sexual practices, concepts, or fantasies that are considered unusual by the majority.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Roles

Humiliation through feminization: Sissy

Sissy is a BDSM role that follows a certain kink. A male-identified person undergoes feminization because they find it humiliating.

by Deviance | A to Z, Products

DIY Paracord Flogger – Tutorial

How about a very personal gift: In this tutorial, blogger Katharina-Sophie shows you how to make your own DIY flogger.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Roles

The Middle perspective

The role of the Middle describes a person who identifies with a younger mindset, typically around the teenage age, or shows corresponding behavior.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

The Ring of O – History and meaning

The Ring of O gained its importance with the film adaptation of the “Story of the O”. Today the ring is a symbol of BDSM adherents all over the world.

by Deviance | Fantasy & Experience, Stories

Why hands are the best toys

BDSM author Margaux Navara regularly presents new toys. Among them, there’s one that almost everyone already has and doesn’t even cost anything: our hands.