Oral sex royal: queening or facesitting
There is hardly any other practice that allows for the demonstration of power and superiority with maximum pleasure for the dominant person like Queening, also known as Facesitting.
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Talking about preferences: “And what are you into?”
Talking about preferences, inclinations, and fetishes can be daunting, feel unfamiliar, and evoke feelings of shame. Here are seven ideas.
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Riding crop – For discipline and order
The riding crop is typically intended as an instrument for a brief chastisement to correct misbehavior on the part of the submissive partner.
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Under observation: Voyeur
In the literal sense of voyeurism, it is a crime. When we talk about deviance from voyeurs, as usual, we assume consent.
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The pleasure of torture: Sadist
Exercising power and (consensual) violence can cause more sexual arousal in a sadist than the actual performance of sexual acts.
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8 points for your safety when dating
When two or more people engage in BDSM, the issue of personal safety should be anything but neglected.
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The inner struggle
Can I find this hot? Am I allowed to enjoy it? Blogger Katharina-Sophie from Sub-Space on inner struggle and societal chains.
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Jangled nerves: The Wartenberg wheel
In medicine, it’s hardly used anymore for hygienic reasons, but the Wartenberg wheel is experiencing a true renaissance in BDSM circles to deliberately induce pain stimuli.
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The best and safest locations for your first date
Dating location: The first date in BDSM always brings some difficulties with it. One of them is choosing a suitable location.
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Collars and cuddles: pet play
Pet play refers to erotic role-playing games where a typically submissive partner takes on the role of an animal. Popular choices include cats, dogs, and ponies.
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What does polyamory have to do with BDSM?
Polyamory describes a form of love life very common in BDSM circles, where a person has, loves, and maintains relationships with multiple partners.
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Flogger – A whip even for beginners
A flogger is mostly used as a sex toy in the BDSM realm. The active act of whipping is called flagellation.
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BDSM symbols: Recognizable signs in everyday life
As is common in many subcultures, BDSM sympathizers also use symbols to identify themselves to like-minded people in everyday life. But which symbols mean what?
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Total control: Master and Mistress
The role of a Master or Mistress refers to a person who consensually assumes ownership of another person with whom they are in a relationship.
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How to put on Latex
Those who have ever tried on the shiny material know: Putting on latex is anything but easy. Here you will learn how to tame even the toughest fabric.
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#NormalizeBDSM
BDSM is sick? No, says blogger Katharina-Sophie and demands: Normalize BDSM! However, some vanillas may see it differently.
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Of wishing and wanting
Wishes and BDSM fantasies can sometimes be quite wild. However, author Margaux Navara wishes especially for beginners that these are not fulfilled at first.
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A short guide to prostate massage
A commonly practiced technique in the BDSM realm is prostate massage, also referred to as “milking”, as it allows for orgasm without penile stimulation.
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Kinky – a bend in sexuality
In general language usage, “kinky” describes sexual practices, concepts, or fantasies that are considered unusual by the majority.
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Humiliation through feminization: Sissy
Sissy is a BDSM role that follows a certain kink. A male-identified person undergoes feminization because they find it humiliating.
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DIY Paracord Flogger – Tutorial
How about a very personal gift: In this tutorial, blogger Katharina-Sophie shows you how to make your own DIY flogger.
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The Middle perspective
The role of the Middle describes a person who identifies with a younger mindset, typically around the teenage age, or shows corresponding behavior.
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The Ring of O – History and meaning
The Ring of O gained its importance with the film adaptation of the “Story of the O”. Today the ring is a symbol of BDSM adherents all over the world.
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Why hands are the best toys
BDSM author Margaux Navara regularly presents new toys. Among them, there’s one that almost everyone already has and doesn’t even cost anything: our hands.
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