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Roles

by Deviance | A to Z, How to Deviance, Roles, Tips

The Deviance BDSM test: Finally know who you are in the dungeon

Dom, Sub or something else entirely? The Deviance BDSM test finds out in 36 questions which roles suit you best.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Roles

Feminizer in BDSM: A journey into roleplay and degradation

Feminizer in BDSM: A transformative role that plays with power, degradation, and feminization. Explore the facets of this kink.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Roles

Finsub – quite an expensive thrill

Finsub, money pig, money slave: Find out here why some people get turned on by financially submitting and what facets this role has.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Roles

Findom: When you get more for your money than expected

Discover what it means to be a Findom: The role of financial dominance and how it is applied in relationships and dynamics.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Roles

Femdom – Under female leadership

Although “Dom” is gender-neutral, the term is still often associated with male dominance, which is why the specific term “Femdom” emerged.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Sadomasochist – It’s all about the pain

Talking about BDSM, the word “sadomasochist” quickly comes up. But it’s not that simple because it’s a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Spanko – loves spanks in every aspect

Spanko is derived from “spanking,” meaning “to hit.” So, a Spanko is into spanking in the BDSM context, both as the giver and receiver.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Roles

Longing for security: Little

In BDSM jargon, a Little is a person who likes to adopt toddler-like behavior and is looking for a parental figure of reference.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Primal – Wild thing, you make my heart sing

“Primal” is a BDSM practice in which participants fully embrace their animalistic instincts, including biting, scratching, and grunting.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Roles

Keyholder – Playing the key role

Keyholders in BDSM are tops who hold the key to a chastity belt or similar device, thereby controlling the pleasure of another person.

by Marina | A to Z, Roles

The term Hotwife or Cuckoldress

Often the Hotwife or Cuckoldress is sexually dominant over her partner and her outward play serves to reinforce her dominance.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Roles

Switch – Two souls in one chest?

As a switch in BDSM, it’s important that you don’t let people tell you that you have to choose the dominant or submissive side.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Spanker – passionate Top with a knack for impact

A Spanker enjoys beating others in erotic play. Find out here what the attraction behind this type of play is and who matches it.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Roles

Ponyboy and Ponygirl: Beyond the tails and rides

Pony play is an animalistic aspect of BDSM. But what exactly is a Ponyboy or Ponygirl? In this article, we’ll shoot the breeze…

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Spankee – whipping boy or girl by passion

A Spankee is a person who desires to be spanked for erotic reasons within the BDSM context. But what makes this so appealing?

by Ginger San | A to Z, Roles

Dom: short for dominant

Having control without controlling. Respect and be respected. As well-known as the role of the Dom is within and outside the BDSM world, it is also complex.