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A to Z

Chastity. Or: “a never cuming story”

In BDSM chastity play, the bottom participant abstains from sex, masturbation, and/or orgasms at the request of the top participant.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Roles

Fetish in a shining armour – Latex Lover

In the fetish community, there are a variety of material or object fetishists. One of them is the Latex Lover, a person who is aroused by rubber.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

“You are my Toy!”

A human Toy comes into play when the Top wishes it. The most important task is to satisfy the person playing the Top.

by Lynn | A to Z, Products

Jute rope – noisy but soft

Due to its unique, supple, and soft handling, jute rope has become a popular choice for bondage rope in recent years.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Hang in there! Bunny and Rope Bottom

Yes, theres is a name for the passive part in rope bondage, who consensually and with attention to safety risks allows themselves to be tied up by another person.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Latex fetish – shine bright like a…

Latex or rubber is one of the most common material fetishes. Additionally, this shiny material is often encountered as a sex toy or dress code at BDSM parties.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Golden shower: Just let it out

Golden shower is the term for urine play. Here you can find out what the attraction is, what to watch out for and what you should avoid.

by Lynn | A to Z, Products

Rough and tough: hemp rope

Since hemp rope maintains its length under tension, it is an ideal rope for the Japanese bondage art shibari, but for this reason, it is more suitable for experienced bondage fans.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Pretty captivating: Rigger or Rope Top

“Rigger” refers to a profession in the maritime industry. The alternative name Rope Top is made up to show also the status of playing “on top” within a BDSM activity.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

Aftercare – What it comes down to

Aftercare refers to the mutual psychological and emotional support of the players immediately after a BDSM session by talking about and reflecting on the experience.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Submission – The fine art of surrender

In exploring the concept of submission, one delves into the dynamics of power and trust within interpersonal relationships. A conscious decision to relinquish control or authority.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Uniform fetish: Attention!

The uniform fetish is often associated with negative examples like SS uniforms, yet the range of this fetish is more diverse than one might think.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

The taming of the shrew: Brat Tamer

Like many other terms in the BDSM realm, “Brat-Tamer” can be taken literally. It’s a challenging role.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

It’s getting hot: wax play

A tantalizing BDSM practice with a unique visual aspect: Wax play involves dripping or pouring hot wax onto bare skin.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Limits: hard and soft, but always important

In BDSM, setting limits establishes the framework within which play occurs. There are distinctions between hard and soft limits, which exist on both the submissive and dominant sides.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Spanking: beat on beat to ecstasy

Spanking is one of the most popular BDSM practices and describes hitting for the purpose of punishment or arousal. In particular, it refers to the spanking of the buttocks.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Pretty tricky: clamps and clips

Clamps for BDSM can be attached to various parts of the body. But beware: Not every body part is suitable for everyone when it comes to pain tolerance.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Flexible and adventurous: Kinkster

A Kinkster engages in kinky activities, practice SM practices, and is flexible in the expression of their desires without aligning with one side of the power dynamic.