Pretty edgy: Edging
Edging is a specific type of orgasm control in which a submissive person is repeatedly pushed to the limit of arousal.
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How kink shaming creates additional barriers
Kink shaming describes the devaluation of a person based on their sexual preferences and is also frequently encountered within the BDSM community.
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Genital torture for men: Ballbusting / CBT
Ballbusting” or “Cock and Ball Torture” (“CBT” in short) is a form of play in which the penis and testicles are tormented.
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Oral sex royal: queening or facesitting
There is hardly any other practice that allows for the demonstration of power and superiority with maximum pleasure for the dominant person like Queening, also known as Facesitting.
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Riding crop – For discipline and order
The riding crop is typically intended as an instrument for a brief chastisement to correct misbehavior on the part of the submissive partner.
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Under observation: Voyeur
In the literal sense of voyeurism, it is a crime. When we talk about deviance from voyeurs, as usual, we assume consent.
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The pleasure of torture: Sadist
Exercising power and (consensual) violence can cause more sexual arousal in a sadist than the actual performance of sexual acts.
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Jangled nerves: The Wartenberg wheel
In medicine, it’s hardly used anymore for hygienic reasons, but the Wartenberg wheel is experiencing a true renaissance in BDSM circles to deliberately induce pain stimuli.
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Collars and cuddles: pet play
Pet play refers to erotic role-playing games where a typically submissive partner takes on the role of an animal. Popular choices include cats, dogs, and ponies.
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What does polyamory have to do with BDSM?
Polyamory describes a form of love life very common in BDSM circles, where a person has, loves, and maintains relationships with multiple partners.
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Flogger – A whip even for beginners
A flogger is mostly used as a sex toy in the BDSM realm. The active act of whipping is called flagellation.
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Total control: Master and Mistress
The role of a Master or Mistress refers to a person who consensually assumes ownership of another person with whom they are in a relationship.
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How to put on Latex
Those who have ever tried on the shiny material know: Putting on latex is anything but easy. Here you will learn how to tame even the toughest fabric.
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A short guide to prostate massage
A commonly practiced technique in the BDSM realm is prostate massage, also referred to as “milking”, as it allows for orgasm without penile stimulation.
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Kinky – a bend in sexuality
In general language usage, “kinky” describes sexual practices, concepts, or fantasies that are considered unusual by the majority.
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Humiliation through feminization: Sissy
Sissy is a BDSM role that follows a certain kink. A male-identified person undergoes feminization because they find it humiliating.
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DIY Paracord Flogger – Tutorial
How about a very personal gift: In this tutorial, blogger Katharina-Sophie shows you how to make your own DIY flogger.
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The Middle perspective
The role of the Middle describes a person who identifies with a younger mindset, typically around the teenage age, or shows corresponding behavior.
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The Ring of O – History and meaning
The Ring of O gained its importance with the film adaptation of the “Story of the O”. Today the ring is a symbol of BDSM adherents all over the world.
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The basic of playing: Consent
Since BDSM games can often be uncomfortable, painful, or even dangerous, consent in BDSM has a special significance.
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Complete submission: Serf
In BDSM, a serf refers to a person who agrees to relinquish total control to someone with whom they are in a relationship.
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What the famous safeword is all about
One of the terms that enjoys great popularity outside the BDSM world is the safeword, which indicates the termination of a session.
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Parental Care: Mommy and Daddy
A Mommy or Daddy is a person who takes on a parental and nurturing role within the context of ageplay. Gender-neutral terms for this person include “Caregiver.”
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Bull and Cuckcake: The third wheel?
In BDSM, a bull or cuckcake is the third person in a cuckold dynamic who performs sexual acts with the dominant person.
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