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The kink scene in transition: Is it a good thing that BDSM, kinks, and fetishes are increasingly entering the mainstream, or not? What opportunities and risks does this bring?
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Who hasn’t been there? You have an interesting match, but the spark for the first message just isn’t there. A topic that the podcast “Die Kunst der Unvernunft” has also explored.
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Did you know that you can add Deviance as an app to your home screen? Find out how right here!
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What is the appeal of spreader bars, and how versatile is this playstyle? Deviance has tested a very special spreader bar for you.
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Advent is just around the corner, and we at Deviance have come up with something really special to increase the excitement for Christmas. Together with our partner Orion, Europe’s largest erotic retailer, we’re launching the Deviance Advent campaign – a sensual giveaway that will definitely heat you up in the cold season! 🎁🔥 Here’s how it works: To […]
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Trustworthy fun: Every verified profile helps build a network of trusted members. Together, we’re making Deviance a platform where you can truly let go.
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Finally! The feature you’ve all been waiting for is here! With Deviance Search, you can now filter profiles by identification, orientation, kinks, and more.
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Score, you have a match! But now? Who writes first? And what do I write? The first message in can sometimes be quite sweaty. Here are 69 ideas.
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You’ve decided on a premium membership? Great! Here’s how to manage your subscription and settings.
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Nipple clamps promise a special kind of pleasure pain. But beware! Not all have the same effect and evoke the same sensations.
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Finally: The Deviance Premium features are here! Four new functions to increase your chances of exciting kinky encounters. Here’s how.
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In a 24/7 relationship, a kink or power imbalance is lived day and night. That’s okay as long as the dominant part has only the best intentions for both.
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A drop occurs when someone cannot emotionally handle a BDSM session and negative feelings take hold. Why this happens and how to avoid it.
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Shibari is a special style of sexual bondage in which people are tied up in complicated patterns and are rather quiet.
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Often the Hotwife or Cuckoldress is sexually dominant over her partner and her outward play serves to reinforce her dominance.
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Ageplay represents a BDSM role-playing game in which the participants pretend to be a different age than they actually are. Particularly popular: DDLG
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Bondage, in a sexual context, refers to all types of play in which someone is restrained from moving freely in some way.
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A cuckold or a cuckquean is a person in BDSM who enjoys the humiliation of watching or knowing that their partner is having sex with someone else.
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Whether it’s a new acquaintance or a long-term relationship, how do you find out if another person is into BDSM or open to try it?
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Indeed, dating profiles offer the opportunity to reveal more about one’s personality than offline interactions. Here are our tips.
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“If I ever stop working with food, I’ll build a Tinder for BDSM!” Marina, founder of Deviance, explains how a joke turned into something serious.
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Aftercare refers to the mutual psychological and emotional support of the players immediately after a BDSM session by talking about and reflecting on the experience.
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Entering the BDSM scene, both offline and online, you often come across the term ‘Wannabe Dom’. What does it mean?
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In general language usage, “kinky” describes sexual practices, concepts, or fantasies that are considered unusual by the majority.
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